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| At mount druitt right now, feeling nothing but boredom. What is there to do here? Lol
well, i was busy chatting to my friends last night and watching my favorite sitcom for the quadrillionth time -- friends! When my sister just came in my room and told me our aunti called her up and asked her if we can go visit them at mounty today.. So yeah, thats how we ended up being here right now.
Just watched music and lyrics earlier.. Its an okay movie.. Nothing special about it. today is the official third day of my so called mission..i don't think its a mission though.. Just time alone and time to think things through. Its not really hard , but trust me, its not easy too..not even close!
Whatever, lol.. I was so bored yesterday, just stayed home and had a lazy day.. Was too lazy to go out, so i just thought of pimping my multiply site. Lol
that's what happens when you leave pia all alone- without sumfin to do and any1 to talk to.. Oh well, baby cousin's crying now, have to make her stop. Lol
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 Talking to one of my best friends now.. and i told her i'd write a blog about CHAPLETS... and she was like "go!!! i'll read it when you're done" haha.. So here goes.... I miss my girls.... they're the best friends any person could ever have.. when we're together, we do hilarious things.. we make fun of each other... but we know when to get serious.. Noise.. Laughter.. Giggles---these r what you'll here when we're together.. nothing can stop us from enjoying each other's companies... Comfortable silences-- do exist sometimes... proves the bond and how great our relationship is with each other... Problems---they come and go... but we make it easy for each other to overcome these trials.... we help in our own lil ways... and we make each other feel better the best way we possibly can... Food -- we can't live without food.... pigging out is one of our group hobbies..... lolz Boys -- we try soooo hard to not focus on these species... hahah but sad to say... they just have their own ways of getting in our heads.. or worse--- into our hearts.... *sigh* School--- we're not the type of girls who flunk and take the opportunity 'to gain more knowledge each day' for granted... schooling may be a pain in the ass most of the time... but we know its for our own good... I sure as hell miss you guys...  | | |
| 1. A man won't let go if he really
loves you.
Do not hold on to someone who has let
go of you. He does not love you and
does not value having you. Believe me,
he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not
willing to tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he
ended the relationship.
There is only one reason why he ended
your relationship. He just does not
love you. Do not waste your time
thinking of reasons or what you should
have done. Move on and be open to a
man who will truly love you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past.
Do not nag or distrust your current
boyfriend just because your ex hurt
you. Do not treat him or the
relationship the same way. Do not
compare. He will not react the same
way as your ex. Do not be worried that
your simple mistakes will cause him to
look for another girl. What happened
with your ex was not your fault. It
was not because you didn't guard him
enough or you didn't make him happy
enough.
4. Do not look into images.
How many times have you met a girl who
didn't have the best image in school
or at the office, but you get to know
the girl and found out she was
actually extremely nice? Do not rely
on images. Oftentimes, it is far from
reality. Do not fear men just because
your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend
mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules.
Set your limits on how far you'd go
for a guy. It's perfectly ok to give
and do everything as long as it's
worth it. And it's worth it if the guy
is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him.
Don't be scared that he'll break up
with you. Once you are afraid of
losing him, you easily can be taken
advantage. Be strong and if something
is unacceptable, do not accept it and
speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy.
It's a guy thing. The relationship
will definitely be better if it's the
guy who's calling, not the girl. He
will get tired of you if you keep on
calling. He will lose interest and
challenge. More so, he will get
annoyed. But it's a girl thing also
that your fingers get too itchy until
you dial his number. But avoid as much
as possible. Call only if really
needed (like checking if your
suspicions are reasonable).
8. There is a guy who will value you.
There is a guy out there who can make
you feel valued, appreciated, and
loved. And I mean, not just during
your first few weeks together. So
don't lose hope. Don't settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to
women. There is a man out there who
can love you like a girl can.
Also, do not believe him when he says
it's just the way he really is. He's
not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks
together? Where has that sweet guy
gone? He simply is not that into you
anymore.
9. Always be the only one, no matter
what.
Do not ever fall for a guy who has
another girl, be it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl that he says
he just can't get rid of for whatever
reason. If you truly believe that he
loves you and for some reason, he
can't leave or let go of another girl,
then you are no different from any
ordinary mistress.
10. He must respect you.
No matter how long the relationship
has been, he should always show
respect towards you.
11. If he fooled you, end it. | | |
| Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one
day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to
the next time u will
anyway, today was an okay day i guess.. went to dieu's place at livo... she showed me around and ate at yummy yummy nando's  .. borrowed some dvd's from her too.. She studied while i was, i dno.. talking, eating, walking around, playing loud music, goin through her files on her computer hahaha... it pretty much kept me out of boredom... then we drove to sydenham coz she had to see her dearly beloved henry... so i just asked her to drop me off at sydenham station... On my way home..i was really sleeeeepy.... i dint get to sleep well last nite.... i was just lying on my bed and trying to get sum sleep from like 3:30am.. but yeah..cudnt sleep...until i saw the sun greeting me 'good morning sunshine!!' lolz
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| Long time no update xanga! lolz.. well just thought of writing now.. coz i have something on my mind.. There's this guy... and i'm confused.. lolz... clear as crystal? haha
well let's just say we agreed on not talking, txting, chatting, seeing each other for a whole week... and hopefully, by the end of the week, we'll have the answers to our questions. Questions like... do i really like him? will i miss him? how special is he? and so on...
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